Good memories replace the bad ones

I had one of hell of a weekend last week. At no point during the two days was i sitting at home with nothing to do. Both days i went to a theme park with different groups of friends and i also went to someones birthday dinner. That happened yesterday. And we all know what happened yesterday about 3 years ago. Okay, maybe you guys don't know, but 3 years ago i also went to the same themepark with my ex-significant other and my cousin and her ex-significant other. So 3 years later, i'm at the same place but with my friends, the people that i care more about. The people that matter to me. Boys come and go but friends always remain...unless you get into a really big fight with them, then it just becomes awkward. Anyways, i'm just glad that i spent yesterday with my friends because now i remember that day not for him but for the amazing time i had with my friends. They have no idea but i'm thanking them for in a way, saving me. And today i see my bestest friend in the whole world. Which i'm incredibly excited for because she'll be leaving for vacation soon. I'm glad now i have better priorities in life, family, school, friends. It's best not to include anything else in that list right now, because i'm happy. Yes i'm not extremely happy but i'm definitely getting there. Slowly but surely I'm replacing the bad memories with new good memories. I'm happy i'm moving forward...so happy that i could cry...okay maybe not, but you get the picture!

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