Life is moving along or is it?

So tomorrow one of my best friends Lais finally comes back from France after about 7 and a half months! Wow, it's been sucha long time since I've seen her. I miss her so very much. Can't wait. I could really use her at a time like this. She's always been great to me, very supportive and just an awesome friend. I know she can comfort me like no other just because we've reached that stage in our friendship. Maybe the fact that we lived together strengthened that bond. We've honestly been with each other through our highs and lows. Really, at the end of the day, during tough times is when you realize who is actually there for you. And I know she always is/will be. I hope she had a wonderful time in Paris, but now Canada wants her back. I just hope she isn't sad that she won't be with her bf all the time. That can really mess someone up. Thats why I almost always say, don't fall in love on vacation. It just seems impractical and a set up for heart break. Actually, it doesn't even matter where/when you fall in love. Just don't do it. Maybe it's the bitter side of me reacting this way right now, but falling in love just seems dumb. It's like you give your everything to someone else, let them all the way in, and they still disappoint you. They still leave. People always leave. And it just feels like a lie. A big. fat. lie.

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