The people who just don't give a shit.

There's so many people in this world. About 7 billion. But out of those people, who do you think actually care for you? Not much is the right answer to that question. It's really hard to find people who genuinely give a shit about you. I mean, you think you have found your best friends forever, but sooner or later, they turn their back against you. They forget to call you, text you, email you...they start to forget you. You know the saying "absence makes the heart grow fonder"? What BULLSHIT. Noooooo. In no way is that much space EVER good. Whether it be for a relationship with your BFF or your BF. That much distance only spells trouble. In this day and age, communication is KEY to any relationship. And communication IS NOT FREAKIN' HARD TO DO. Thanks to our wonderful technological upgrades, anyone can get in touch with someone else. It's all about want. Whether the other person is important enough to be contacted. And thats when we meet the people who just don't give a shit. These lazy asses, make no effort whatsoever to maintain their relationships. They expect OTHER people to pick up the phone and give them a call or OTHER people to make plans and invite them. Well guess what lazy asses, these OTHER people are not stupid and do have some self-respect and dignity. WE WILL GET TIRED OF THE CHASE. It's not too long before they realize that it's not worth it and that they just stop making the effort. If the relationship is meant to survive it will, if not, then i guess it ended because of a reason. This is exactly the kind of laissez-faire attitude people should have. Because the more you care about someone else, the more it'll end up hurting when they just don't give a shit.

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